Good thing you came along..
we've been struggling you know..
There's something that happens a lot in my life that never ceases to amaze me.. it's when people who are not disabled or are new to disability instantly have solutions to issues that they know nothing about.. their only reason for thinking they have this world altering information is because they are, in my opinion, clueless.
They gush this phoned in, low level crap and expect to be congratulated for their contribution and are offended and angry when you don't instantly feed their egos by telling them they may want to get a bit of experience before they tell someone who DOES have experience how and why they with no background, know better..